I read Estifanos Oh The Places You Will Go the other night, and when I got to the part about the Waiting Place it hit home. The whole book actually hit home. On any given day I feel excitement for Kayeso to come home, happiness for him to join our family and to be his Mom, sadness he is not here yet, and anxiety about his needs and caring for four children.
Are we ready? Are we prepared? Are the kids ready? Are the kids prepared? How do I feel? How does Brian feel? How do the kids feel? These are all questions that we are asked about a zillion times a day, and that I think about from the moment I wake up til my head hits the pillow. When I am at a soccer game, making lunches, at work, a dance class, church, or in he quiet of the night I think about how life will be different in less than three months.
Are we all ready? We talk about it on a daily basis, but I don’t know if you are ever fully ready. Who knows what the future holds. I am just ready to stop waiting and get to travel to get my son, and begin our journey as a complete family.
I was reminded this past couple of weeks how blessed we are to be a part of the Ethiopian community, and the amazing culture our kids come from.
It has been a hectic few weeks with school starting, soccer in full swing with Brian coaching both teams, gymnastics, dance, church activities, preparing to travel to bring Kayeso home in a couple of short months, oh and don’t forget that thing called work. In the midst of all these hectic times at moments I am reminded of our kids’ culture and the amazing Ethiopian people that we get to meet and share with frequently.
A couple of weeks ago we were at an Ethiopian adoption picnic with all familes who have adopted in southern California mostly San Diego. It is amazing to watch this younger generation of Ethiopian-American kids as the grow into themselves each time I see them.
Brian went to get gas for our BBQ at the gas station, and he asked, “Where is a picture of Kayeso?” The lady who works at the gas station immigrated here many years ago from Ethiopia and adores our kids.
We went out to eat at the local Ethiopian restaurant last night, and the young man in his 20’s had certain fondness for Yordie because his sister’s name is also Yordanos. My kids were like there is a, “big Ethiopian kid.”
Last but definitely not least there is the young man who works at my dad’s office who adores our kids. His mom who we have never met is making Kayeso and our other kids a present that we are not sure exactly what it is, but we are so excited to get.
We are so grateful to the Ethiopian community here for their support of our family, and for them reminding our kids where they came from and who they are. In a world of school, sports, friends, and media it is easy to forget where you came from. It is special to have mentors in their lives besides us to remind them of their journey, and what makes them who they are.